Welcome to M&D’s site! We are performers, educators, and ambassadors of kink. Our mission is to show the masses that BDSM isn’t just about pain or power. It can be deeply connective. It can be silly and fun. It can also be an artform — a medium for us to express our creativity, with connections to the flow arts, martial arts, and dance.
Our style of impact play is sensual and flowy. But don’t get us wrong. We’ll still beat up on you if that’s what you want. Check out the video below for a tame-ish highlight reel of our work, or click here for the full NSFW version.
For the newcomers and kink-curious, this site will help you get started with your impact play journey, and also offer information on safety, consent, and general best practices in kink. Our free tutorials will show you all the basic techniques.
If you want personalized help beyond the tutorials, you can contact me (D) for a private lesson or follow us on Instagram to find out when I’ll be teaching a workshop.
For the veteran kinksters, you’ll find tips and tutorials on advanced techniques, as well as information for deeper, more nuanced conversations about the kink community.
And as a ridiculously important sidenote, if you’re new to kink, please start by learning about consent and safety above all else. Our Resources page is a good place to start.
Cover photo by @jackiexphoto
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