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Bondage Ball
We absolutely love these slow-motion closeups from Bondage Ball San Diego on January 17, 2026. Thank you for capturing these, Subtle Lotus! I originally posted these clips on our Instagram (click here to check us out), but they got removed for being potential sexual solicitation 🤷🏻♂️ … I appealed, but got denied 🤷🏻♂️ … So,…
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Highlight Reel 2025
Here’s a highlight reel of some of our performances and demos from the past few years. It can’t go on Instagram because it’s probably a little too NSFW for it, but YouTube seems a little more friendly with PG-13 content. In case you’re curious, the events shown are (in order of appearance):
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Spice Up Your Florentine with Sideswipes
Do you enjoy the rhythm and flow of Florentine, but also find it getting repetitive after awhile? Do you wish you could change things up and throw in some surprises every now and then, so you don’t start putting your bottom to sleep? If so, here’s a move you can pull to keep your bottom…
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Removed By Instagram
We offered our Pick Your Poison experience at Club Sabbat’s Back to School Night back in August. To fit with the theme, we called it Time Out. This video was removed by Instagram for sexual content, which is frankly a bit confusing, as it’s not any more explicit than some of the other videos we’ve…
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Practice Different Ways of Saying No
Remember that “no” is a starting point, not the final say. It’s a complete sentence, but it isn’t the only complete sentence. There are so many other ways to say no, and there absolutely will be times when we’ll want to vary our response.
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Opt-in or Opt-out Consent?
Have you heard of the terms “opt-in” or “opt-out” consent? If you plan on negotiating play with anyone at any point, you’ll definitely need to understand the difference between the two. So if you’re not familiar, read on … The terms are used mostly by tech companies when managing user data and privacy, but they…
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Pick Your Poison: A Fun Way to Introduce Newcomers to Impact Play
As veteran members of our local kink community, we offer introductory impact play experiences to people who are curious about BDSM. And over the past few months, we’ve been putting a fun twist on these experiences …
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LED Light Whips as Floggers
If you have a bottom who loves it sting-y … Do we have the toy just for you. Here’s a clip from our performance at Bondage Ball San Diego last weekend: After our performance, we got a bunch of questions about these light-up toys, so I figured I’d write something up and also share a…
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My Utility Floggers
If you’re wondering about the specific floggers I use in my tutorials, here’s all the information on them …
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Reverse Six-Point Florentine / Three-Beat Weave Full Tutorial
Flogging in reverse (striking upwards) can be quite the experience for your bottom. Since the floggers are swinging up from underneath, you can make impact with the meatiest parts of the butt cheeks in a way that you just can’t when striking downwards. Plus, if you’re extra-mean (or extra-naughty, depending on how you wanna look…
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Six-Point Florentine with Handled Floggers
Last time, I posted a full tutorial on six-point Florentine, also known as the three-beat weave. If you use traditional handled floggers, here’s a quick tip on how to adjust your grip so that you can execute the move more cleanly and smoothly.
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Six-Point Florentine / Three-Beat Weave Full Tutorial
This tutorial is intended for both floggers and poi spinners. If you’re brand new to either poi or two-handed flogging, I start with the basic moves you’ll need and build on them until you get to the weave itself. This tutorial is also intended to help those of you who can do four-point Florentine (also…
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